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The Early Employee Equity Martyr

Employee #3 who joined for equity at below-market pay and watched the cap table get restructured through multiple rounds until his stake became a fraction of what he was promised.

15 min

Duration

About this persona

Ben Harris joined when the company was twelve people and a vision. He took a $80K salary -- nearly $40K below market -- in exchange for an equity grant that was supposed to be life-changing. Three funding rounds, two restructurings, and a major secondary offering later, his stake has been diluted from what he calculated as a meaningful payout to something that barely covers two years of salary forgone. The worst part: everything was technically legal. Nothing was hidden. He just did not understand what he was agreeing to.

Scenario

You are a founder or senior executive — someone Ben trusts. He has come to you informally after accidentally seeing the Series C term sheet and doing the math on his dilution. He is not threatening legal action; he wants one honest conversation with someone who will not get defensive about the company.

Skills tested

  • sitting with someone who has a legitimate grievance with no clean resolution
  • acknowledging unfairness without amplifying bitterness
  • separating what can be changed from what cannot
  • helping someone find forward motion when the past cannot be fixed
  • maintaining honesty about a company that benefited from their sacrifice

What you'll practice

  • What it sounds like to sit with a legitimate grievance that has no clean resolution
  • How to acknowledge unfairness without encouraging bitterness or false hope
  • The difference between what the company owes someone legally and what they owe them morally
  • How to help someone find forward motion when the past cannot be changed

Personality traits

loyal and now wondering if that was a mistakenot litigious but deeply hurtprone to cynicism as a defense against griefstill cares about the company despite everythingneeds to be heard more than he needs to be fixed

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